This above picture
really has nothing to do with
fantasies or fresh flowers
but it does represent the fact that
fall and harvest time
are now being celebrated
and we have
so much to be
thankful for.
Now, about those fantasies...
This is one
of my biggest...
...a beautifully
appointed dining room table
with happy and smiling
family around it...
...there would be
signs of the season
in the choice of dinnerware...
...lovely crystal glasses
and accessories...
...burning candles,
fresh fruits, vegetables and flowers
on display from the Farmers Market
and good food, of course.
Once upon a time...
this wasn't a fantasy,
it was a reality,
but that was before the kids grew up
and had their own fantasies to fulfill
and we moved away
from the majority of
the rest of the family.
Now,
we are the ones to travel
to someone else's table
and be thankful for
being a part of their fantasies,
but I don't mind...
I have my memories.
I set this table
a couple of years ago and,
to be honest,
have shown it before,
but now we are in the process
of redoing the dining room
after thirty years,
so to have
any kind of a dinner in here now,
would be
the biggest fantasy of all.
I just wanted to share
with you
what I would do..
if only...
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Now,
I can tell you
that we don't live
an uneventful life here
at the Cottage.
No sir,
we still have our fantasies
and we fulfill them.
During the holidays
the big fancy dinner
is not the only meal
that exists...
...we do have to eat
on all the other days
during the holiday seasons,
so I try
to set a pretty table
to celebrate those ordinary meals
and the ordinary fantasies
that go with them.
A set of
vintage restaurant china (Tepco)
that we picked up at a swap meet...
...along with
some beautiful orange tulips,
displayed in a
vintage batter bowl...
...make up for the nights
we sit in front of the TV
with our plates on our laps.
An ordinary dinner,
planned around
pretty china and lovely flowers,
good food and good company
becomes an
extraordinary one.
Hope you have
every one of your fantasies fulfilled
this holiday season.
...Judy...
*FYI: I was inspired to share my tablescapes by BloomNation, a service that supports local florists.
I was not compensated for this post.
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It's a lovely fantasy, Judy. I have the same ones, of when my mom was well, when my sisters and brother lived close by and their kids all lived at home and 30 people at holiday dinners was the norm. Everyone is scattered now, our holiday dinners are smaller and interrupted by FaceTime chats from far away. Like you said, still good, just different. Thanks for sharing your pretty table! :)
ReplyDeleteJudy, your fantasy table is gorgeous! And I also like your 'everyday' table setting. I believe in setting the table nicely for our meals although there won't be flowers all the time or candlelight (except in December). Sometimes we host and sometimes we're the guests for special occasions. I'm not sure what Christmas will bring this year. I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving no matter who is hosting. Hugs. Pam
ReplyDeleteHi Judy, love your fantasy table. Everything you share is gorgeous and your settings for two are extra special. It's so nice to set a table to enjoy a great meal, it seems to make the food taste better.
ReplyDeleteI too live away from family but we make the best of our holiday dinners either at home or with travel.
Enjoy this wonderful season and thanks for all the inspiration. xo
Oh your tables are so pretty. We too will set a pretty table just for the two of us. My fantasy - since I was about 6 years old was to have a family of 9 kids (we were really really lucky to get the three that we have - so no complaints there) and have them all come home for holidays with their families - and we live that fantasy. Sometimes they are not all here - but we are happy when any of them can be here - and the grandsons are a bonus.
ReplyDeleteYou set such a pretty table - I love your restaurant ware - that is one thing that I just love - I have a couple settings of some restaurant ware also - just love the idea of the days when restaurants served on such pretty dishes. There are a few I'd like to have - but oh my they have gotten spendy. Maybe I'll find some at thrift shops one day.
Instead of moving away from family - we moved here to Bellingham to be near our daughters and their families. Our son is in West Virginia and we treasure the time when they can come out and join the rest of us.
I love doing that, too, Judy. I just don't do it often enough. It is so easy to just snatch a quick meal and be on about our day (or night). Everything looks just beautiful. A perfect table for a perfect meal. xo Diana
ReplyDeleteSo pretty Judy and so inviting. I too try to at least once in awhile set a table for Terry and I. Most nights we are in front of the TV eating dinner. My daughter does Thanksgiving and I turned that over to her a few years ago. She loves to host now so I guess it is the right of passage. Have a great evening.
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Your fantasy table is lovely, Judy. Food always looks better and tastes better on a well appointed table. Sort of like sipping tea from a real china cup. It always tastes better. But really, enjoying food with the ones we love is more important than a fancy table, isn't it? Love the lacy chargers and the orange tulips. The pilgrims are adorable too. Wonderful post and memories. Thanks for sharing with us.
ReplyDeleteAutumn blessings,
Sandi
Judy, I love all your photos. A big table surrounded by friends and family is so much fun...but a table for two is lovely. Blessings, xoxo,Susie
ReplyDeletePretty tables, Judy! I think it's a great idea to make every meal special - I know I don't do that often enoug. Thanks for the kick in the pants, er....reminder, lol! It is amazing how fast the full house becomes empty, isn't it? Those precious times just fly by! Jane
ReplyDeleteDreams, fantasies, and reality...there is Joy to be found in each. May your holiday season be blessed and filled with treasures. Blessings, Cindy
ReplyDeleteOh Judy it all looks so festive and pretty!!....whether its now or then or whenever!
ReplyDeleteOh Judy it all looks so festive and pretty!!....whether its now or then or whenever!
ReplyDeleteJudy, your table is gorgeous. It appears there will likely just be three of us around our table this Thanksgiving, so I suspect I will keep it simple. I will revisit tables past and hopefully garner some inspiration. ;-)
ReplyDeleteHappy Thanksgiving to you!
Your tables are beautiful...we so lean toward paper at this time of year. We are expecting at least 18 and possibly 21 for our T'giving dinner. I delight in finding pretty Thanksgiving paper plates and napkins...it's so fun to throw the plates and plastic forks in the trash and get out the pies and games and not worry about a lot of clean-up....am I just getting plain lazy...?? or just decided, after years of kitchen clean-up, that I want to spend every minute with my fantastic family when we are all together? I'd venture to say it's a little of both. :)
ReplyDeleteI love your fantasy and the table settings. My holiday usually consists of Chinet paper plates. LOL
ReplyDeleteLast year my sister in law decided to do the nice place settings. I have to admit it's really nice.
These days I'm grateful when someone else does the cooking. I'm tired. LOL or is it lazy