I hate to start this post off
with a note of sadness,
but this is kind of how
the past few weeks have been.
Tim, Tami and Jake
lost their golden, Cruzer,
to stomach cancer.
He was a
big, goofy, beautiful and good boy,
and he will be
missed so much.
As if that wasn't enough,
a few days after his passing,
Tami experienced
some heart problems.
She and Tim
were working around the house
when her heart
started beating so fast
they were unable
to get a reading on
their home BP monitor.
When sitting in a chair,
she said it felt like the chair
was coming through her back and
she could see the beating
of her heart
through her shirt.
Tim took her to the ER
where they were finally able
to get a reading of 258 beats per minute.
It finally settled back
into normal range
and they called in a cardiologist.
She performed an ultrasound
and discovered some fluid
around the heart
which may have been the result of
the heart's beating
so hard and fast and
caused it to rupture
a small amount.
She was diagnosed with
arterial flutter.
An appointment was set up for her
at a hospital in Redwood City
to perform an ablasion,
which she had last Wednesday.
If you are not familiar with that word,
in simple layman terms,
it is a procedure
where they poke a wire through
a small hole in a vein
in the groin area and
run it up
into the heart.
When they find
where the flutter is
they fix it
and you are as good as new.
It is quite a common condition
that millions of people have.
As I have stated,
this procedure,
with the spelling and content,
is purely in my words.
I don't have the expertise
to state it logically but
I hope you can get the idea.
They are watching the fluid,
making sure it doesn't get any bigger
and expect it to clear up,
on its own,
over time.
As many of you know,
Tami is a fourteen year survivor
of breast cancer.
Every year,
for the past fourteen,
she has raised money to walk
in the Avon Breast Cancer Walk
in San Francisco.
Over the past thirteen years
she has raised a total of $23,400
and this year she added $2,200
to that amount.
It is her way of honoring
all men and women
that have been hit by
this horrible disease and
to give "C"
a hard kick
in the ass!...
...except this year
she won't be able to
as the walk is this coming weekend
and it is too soon for her
to be attacking
the hills of San Francisco
as she usually does,
and you have to know Tami,
she never does
anything
halfway!
Needless to say,
she is more than disappointed
that she won't be able to walk.
She is concerned that
she would be letting down
all the ones who donated
to the cause.
Even though
most would never know
that she couldn't walk,
she would know.
But here is where
a bit of brightness
comes into the whole picture.
Jake
is going
to walk
for her.
You all know that
I brag about Jake
as often as I can.
I am not apologizing for that at all.
It is just a fact
of who he is.
But,
I have never been as proud
as I am in this instance.
Pure and simple,
his mother is devastated and
he is stepping in
to make it right
for her.
Tami,
life is a journey and
we are so proud of your family and
glad that this part of your journey
is coming to an end and
looking forward
to the best
that is yet
to be.
...Mom and Dad...
Hope you all
are having the best
Fourth of July
celebrations!
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When I read about Jake stepping in I started to cry, because beautiful things can bring me tears. What a meaningful gesture. Did he graduate from UCSC? One of our sons graduated from there.
ReplyDeleteIm so sorry about the loss of your daughter Dog I know what she went true I loss my Lala with the same Cancer last year in October all my prayer go to her on her heart problem she is going to be ok
ReplyDeleteOn her procedures that is so nice of her son you has to be so proud of him God bless him
Blessing
Isora
XO
So sorry about your grand dog. It is so sad when we loose them.
ReplyDeleteI am so proud of Jake stepping in to take over his mothers place in the walk against cancer. You have every right to be so proud of him.
Take care of yourselves and Happy 4th.
Hugs,
Mary
Tami is one strong lady. That is so scary and I know you were out of your mind with fear for your daughter. I have heard this before and the procedure. So thankful we live in a time that something can be done to mend the heart in this way. Such a sweet precious grandson stepping in for his Mother. Sorry for the loss of the family dog. So grateful that your daughter is on the mend. She is a pretty lady.
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Judy, Such a heart warming post; I will be lifting Tami up. It is so hard to lose a beloved 4 legged companion! Then to be hit with the heart issue. What a warrior she is to have walked so often in the Walk-a-thon; I had a friend in SR who did it several years in SF. I also have family and friends who have battled breast cancer; in fact, our best friends in SR dealt with the hubby having a heart attack in March and she was diagnosed with breast cancer the first of April. Tami will grow strong and walk next year.
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Noreen
Judy,
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like a roller coaster over the past few weeks. I'm glad that all is turning out ok. Jake is so sweet and shows his wonderful character to do this for his mom.
Hugs
Amy Jo
Judy,
ReplyDeleteYou have an amazing family!! Sending prayers for Tami and the rest of your family. It is a common procedure but when it is a loved one of your own involved, no procedure is considered common in your mind... Keep us posted...
Hugs,
Deb
Love, hugs & prayers for all of you at this time. You are a strong, loving, courageous family.
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So happy your post ended on a good note!! Great pictures of your sweet family. The golden was beautiful.
ReplyDeleteHi Judy!
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy that Tami is going to be okay- how scary. I can't imagine my heart beating that fast. Terrifying! I am saddened to hear about the loss of Cruzer. They are devastated, I'm sure. This news all brought tears to my eyes and when I read about Jake going to walk for Tami, well- they are overflowing! What a wonderful act of love. You brag about that grandson of yours all you want to! He's doing such a great thing for his mom. I'd squeeze him until he yelled for help if I could get my arms around him. LOL Sending love to you and the family...xoxo, T.
Thank you so much, Tina. I appreciate all your kind words. I squeezed him for you..Have a wonderful weekend..Judy
DeleteI'm so glad your post ended on a good note for Tami.... How scary for that to happen! First I was thinking "anxiety attack" as I've had those in the past where you feel like your heart is going to jump out of your chest..but I don't think my beats were EVER that fast! I'm so glad she had the procedure and is doing well.. and that her son is stepping in to walk the walk for her. I would be proud too! I hope the coming weeks settle down for you.. it is hard and scary when medical things happen to our "kids". Sending blessings to all of you too for the loss of sweet Cruzer. Hugs.. Marilyn
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to Tami and her family. The loss of a family pet is very emotional. Very hard to reconcile with and get over, as we animal lovers have a special bond with our furry friends.
ReplyDeleteThat said, I am so, so relieved to hear that Tami is on the mend. I pray this never happens again. And her son, God bless him! What a way to show his love. My sisters have done the Avon Walk and it is not for sissies!
Love how you write about life, it's ups and downs and I truly enjoyed all of the pictures.
Jane x
Judy, I am so glad to hear that Tami is feeling better. Your grandson is an amazing young man and you should brag. It's wonderful to hear about a young man stepping up in this world that lately seems filled with "me, me, me". His behavior is a testament to how you raised your own children and in turn how they raised theirs. I am sending positive thoughts and hugs to you that Tami continues to feel well and that scary episode is totally behind her. Thinking of you my friend...xo
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post. A post of sadness....turned into tremendous JOY!
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Jo
So sorry to hear about the dog ,such beautiful doggie ,knows how it feels to loose a pet friend and a big thumb for your grandson ,what a family you have Judy ,your daughter such a strong person and wonderful that her son will do the walk I wish goodluck good weekend
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Thanks so much, Rita. We are very proud of our kids..Happy weekend to you..Judy
DeleteWow - emotion filled post - but so wonderful what Jake is doing. our thoughts are with you all during this time - hoping for the best of results. Hang on to your loved ones, I know you do, as they are so precious.
ReplyDeleteHi Judy, I am so behind on my commenting. So sorry to hear the sad news about the family pet. It can be so difficult. On top of that Tami having some health issues. Jake is a wonderful young man and you have every right to brag. Have a good weekend.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for the loss of your granddog. It's a difficult thing to get over. Our fur babies mean so much.
ReplyDeleteJake sounds like a wonderful, thoughtful person, and what a meaningful gesture for him to walk for his mom. I'm glad she's on the mend, but that must have been beyond scary for you all to go through.
(((Hugs)))