Tuesday, May 10, 2016

MY PITY PARTY...













What started out
 to be a
 wonderful weekend...


The Captain 
and 
his apprentice...






...were gathering together
 supplies 
for a much awaited 
back yard 
project...






...but before that,
 the lawn needed mowing 
and as much as Kai 
NEEDS to be
 at the Captain's heels,
 he just can't abide 
the sound of the weed whacker
 so he follows the progress 
from door to window,
 as long as that part
 of the job is
 being done.






Unfortunately,
 during that part of the job, 
the weed whacker broke 
and Papa used a few potty words,
 so that moved the apprentice
 from the door and the window,
 but only as far
 as the
 porch.






Then,
 it was my time
 for my Mother's Day present.

 A trip to Hobby Lobby 
and a few items to use
 in that much awaited 
back yard 
project.






It was a great day.

 It rained really hard 
on the way to Hobby Lobby 
and I love riding in the car 
when it is raining,
 as long as I'm not driving!

 We stopped at our favorite 
In and Out Burger joint
 and that made Kai
 very happy. 

When we returned home, 
we caught up on
 some back stories
 of the Alaskan Bush People 
and went to bed early.

  On the way to the bedroom,
 I felt like my foot
was swelling. 
It hurt to bend it.

 Now here, 
I guess, 
is where I bring you 
up-to-date on my health issues. 
 They are not bad, 
and at my age,
 I feel very lucky 
that I am as healthy as I am
 but,
 along with these 
wonderful golden years,
 sometimes there is
 a price to pay.






Some of you
 have heard this story before,
 or parts of it,
 so just stick your fingers
 in your ears
 and sing la, la, la,
 if you don't want to hear it again.

  About 6 years ago,
 I had a blood clot
 in my lower right leg
 and I was rushed to
 Mercy Hospital in Sacramento.
  It took a few hours 
to get the situation taken care of 
and in that time, 
the surgeon thought 
he might have to remove part of my leg. 
 What he did do, 
however,
 was cut one slit 
on the top of my foot 
and one on the side 
of the ankle, 
and using an instrument 
he pulled the clot out. 
 That took care of that problem but,
 in the meantime, 
the circulation was shut off 
long enough 
that it killed three of my toes.  
I had to have them amputated 
and I was put on Warfarin 
to stop the problem ever happening again. 
 It was supposed to be
 an out-patient procedure 
and usually 
when I have to have anesthesia 
I never have a bad reaction
 and wake up free of pain,
 but this time 
that was not the case. 
 I woke up screaming
 because it was really painful 
and they admitted me
 to the hospital. 
 I stayed in 
for about 4 days. 
 During that time 
 whenever I had to get out of bed 
and put my foot down, 
I didn't think 
I could stand it. 
 I couldn't do
 any physical therapy at that time 
as it was too painful 
to put weight on. 
 I promised I would put weight on it 
when I got home 
but all I did 
was hop on my good foot
 to get any place.

 If you have ever had
 any type of surgery
 where you can't use certain muscles 
right away,
 you will know 
what I'm talking about here. 
 I didn't know 
you could lose 
mobility
 so quickly.






I am only showing you
 pictures of flowers
 as I didn't think 
you would enjoy
 seeing the outcome 
of a toeless foot! 

Long story short, 
I had to learn to walk again 
by using a walker for quite sometime 
and then going to physical therapy, 
then walking with a cane 
for a while longer. 
 Even putting
 a regular shoe back on 
took about
 three months.






My foot is always 
slightly swollen 
compared to my other one, 
but I started having pains
 where the toes were 
a few nights ago 
which felt like 
little bursts of lightening 
going through.  
This went on at night time
 for a few nights 
then stopped and
 I was able to sleep. 
 Then, Saturday night was when 
the swelling got more pronounced
 and after soaking it in hot water
 and keeping my foot up for three days 
it feels somewhat better now. 
I really don't want 
to go to the doctor 
but will give it 
a few more days to see.

 I have seen the commercial on TV 
for diabetic nerve pain
 and the pictures look like
 what it kind of feels like, 
although, thank heavens,
 I am not diabetic.
 So we shall see. 
 I hope I don't have to go on
 any medicine
 as it is hard to regulate the Warfrin 
when you introduce new medications, 
and I do 
really well
 on it.






I really don't know why 
I wrote about all this 
except so many sent me
 Mother's Day wishes 
that I wasn't able to answer right away, 
I just felt I needed
 to explain...






...and all of the flowers
 were from a bouquet 
that Kai sent to me 
for Mother's Day 
and I wanted to share them 
with you...




...and if you
 are really into this sort of thing,
 I have a great story 
about a punctured bladder 
that I can tell you! 
But that is 
another story for
 another day.



I hope everyone had
 a wonderful Mother's Day 
and we will be going down 
to the kids in a couple of weeks 
and will celebrate with them then.

  I am looking forward to it.


...Judy...





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Friday, May 6, 2016

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY...











"Rituals of 
quiet and calm 
encourage us to enjoy 
our own 
good company."

Alexandra Stoddard



Enjoy 
your own 
good company
 and have a 
wonderful 
and
relaxing
 Mother's Day.



...Judy...





Tuesday, May 3, 2016

SETTING THE RECORD STRAIGHT...







This is the Cottage garden today, transitioning from late spring into summer.



I would like to thank everyone
 who commented on my flower pictures 
from last week.

 You all had such kind things
to say about the garden 
and about my 
gardening habits.





Right here and now, 
I need to set the record straight.

 In the past, 
I have said 
that my garden grows
 with no help from me
 and that is the honest truth 
as it still stands.





The Captain
does all the mowing, trimming
and keeping up the curb appeal,
 and my expertise lies,
 pretty much, 
in giving orders only, 
although they are 
not always followed.





I will say, however,
 the placement of furniture 
and choosing colors
 of plantings and accessories 
(all the fun stuff)
 I will take 
full responsibility
 for...





...and I do have fun
 putting together
 some charming vignettes.

 But when it comes to maintenance,
 I count on Mother Nature
 to help me out...







Here are a few 
of her little soldiers
 that work so hard 
to raise the standards
 around here...




...so that the rest
 can just keep putting 
their best feet forward
 each year.






Even though 
my intentions are entirely honorable,
I cannot take 
any of the credit.








I have an excellent staff
 always willing to help out,
 but sometimes things happen 
and stories get told 
a little out of context, 
or to be more accurate, 
my fingers get working 
faster than my mind, 
so the facts, 
as I know them, 
don't translate too well. 

 As I got a few comments 
about the why's and where-fores 
of the kids 
taking out the swimming pool 
at their house..
this seems to be 
one of those stories, 
so let me try
 to clarify it.





Once upon a time,
 a family moved into a house, 
(can't you tell the family is partial to blue) 
and as time went by,
 they built a pool 
in the back yard,
 so that the kids
 could have fun.





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The kids grew up 
and moved out of the house
 and the parents moved
 to an entirely different part
 of the state
and to an entirely different type 
of house.




When the parents moved out
and into their entirely different 
type of house,
 the daughter moved back
 into the family house 
with her husband 
and after a few years passed, 
their son was born.





They lived 
in the family house
 and played in the pool 
for many years,
 but one day
 the baby grew up...






...and went to college,
 got a job and a social life,
 and his parents had jobs
 that they worked really hard at
and which left them
no time at all 
for a social life...
so since there was nobody swimming 
and not much free time 
left over for maintenance, 
they decided to remove it...





...and to answer some of your questions:

The pool is not at our house,
 and I don't plan 
to put my brown thumb 
on the garden renovation. 

 The kids have worked so hard 
on this project
 and they will have 
a more manageable yard 
to take care of 
and enjoy
when it is all done.





When we installed the pool 
back in the 1970's,
 a swimming pool was a great 
selling feature 
but since then 
times have changed. 

 I know 
they are still a wonderful addition 
to properties in warmer climates
 but in the 
northern part of this state, 
especially on the coast, 
there aren't that many
 warm days
 and a pool in a rental house
 can be a liability. 

 We would have had 
to remove it 
a long time ago 
if our children 
weren't the ones 
living in the house.




So now 
you know 
the rest of the story 
and I will keep you 
up to date 
on the progress of 
their new back yard 
as it happens.


...Judy...





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