There is a celebration of great magnitude coming this year.
A Grand Old Lady
has picked herself up, brushed herself off, put her best face on
and is getting ready to party
and, no, it isn't me!
It is our sweet little Cottage.
It is almost impossible to think back to how it must have been
all those Christmases ago.
To my knowledge there is little known about how things were
but just knowing this little house after living here so long,
I can almost see it for real.
Here the Garland family lived and played.
The father, a hard working miner,
the mother, the keeper of the home,
two daughters who grew up
to become a nurse and a teacher,
and a son who became a banker.
They tended a beautiful garden that was
the talk of the neighborhood,
and from the broken shards of china
buried in that garden,
it would appear that Mrs. Garland
set a very pretty table.
Obviously, love and good manners
were plentiful.
I can almost hear
the creaking of the old rocking chairs
as the two of them,
dressed in their Sunday best,
greeted neighbors as they passed by
on a weekend stroll.
As I am decorating for this
156th Christmas celebration,
After having lived within these walls
for 34 of those years,
we have had some
enlightening conversations.
There are two
large holly trees
in the garden
that were planted by Mr. Garland.
I would imagine that Mrs. Garland
gathered many armloads of branches
for their Christmas celebrations
over the years,
as I have continued to do for ours.
full of good feelings.
We were aware of that,
even before we owned her.
Throughout some of those long years,
she had not been
thoughtfully taken care of
but she still stood strong.
We knew that she could be loved into
something special once again.
It is an amazing experience
to be able to live surrounded by history.
Memories are everywhere
and are wonderful to have.
Christmas memories
are from another place and time
but we feel so grateful and fortunate
that this Grand Old Lady
"He said, you become.
It takes a long time.
That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily,
or have sharp edges, or have to be carefully kept.
Generally, by the time you are Real,
most of your hair has been loved off,
and your eyes drop out
and you get loose in the joints
and very shabby.
But these things don't matter at all,
because once you are Real
you can't be ugly,
except to people who don't understand."
The Velveteen Rabbit
Margery Williams Bianco
1922
And, isn't that the way it often is?
Christmas: Coming Soon.
...xxoJudy...
Sharing today with:
Love Your Creativity at Life and Linda
Just got the computer back yesterday. Still a work in progress. Can't figure out some aspects yet but not giving up.
Such happy reading. Merry Christmas and a Healthy, Happy and Blessed New Year
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for the kind words. Merry Christmas to you also and a safe and healthy Happy New Year..xxoJudy
DeleteHow beautiful. My first home as a child was a 1904 Sears Home--one of those 2 story 4-squares that my parents rented the upstairs apartment, our second house was an 1870's Victorian with a porch, a wood doored parlor, huge dining room and miniscule bedrooms. Upstairs was an apartment just as big and an attic above that...our 1958 builder home was under 1000 square feet in a better part of town and two blocks from my school. Married -we lived in married student housing---a WWII quonset hut village that was basically a tent of corrugated metal...then we bought a 3 story stone victorian mansion that was a money pit with 54 windows, 13 were stained glass---we lovingly tried to continue the restorations, but then moved to the Chicago area from N. Wisconsin. We've been in three homes here in Illinois---and decorating is always still---based in my childhood old homes, perhaps why I so enjoy your blog, because it feels like HOME. This is what we try to create here, though I'm very late this year...just muddling along and trying to get there! HUGS, and it definitely Christmas in your lovely cottage, and definitely my version of HOME!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Sandi. It sounds like you lived in a lot of beautiful homes. I grew up in a non-descript house that my dad built out of a garage. I then
ReplyDeletelived in a camp on my grandparents property while my dad remodeled that garage again only better this time. It was hard during my high school years but fun for awhile. When first married, I always tried to make my home into a Victorian cottage and now am fortunate enough to have one..Merry Christmas..xxoJudy
How amazing to think of the families that lived in your cottage for the past years and celebrating the holidays. Oh if the walls could talk! I love that you have all that history to your home. Have a good rest of the week. Hugs. Kris.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Kris. Oh, for a time machine just for a day. Hope all is well with you. Merry Christmas..xxoJudy
DeleteI think you beautiful cottage is so lucky to have you living inside and loving it so...the fact that you appreciate the history and have kept it in such great shape is amazing. SO many people just knock these treasures down and build on them. Boo! And yes, if walls could talk!! Haha!! Merry Christmas in your charming home.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Kim. It seems that we are a good fit. It is a constant struggle though to keep it up in the way it deserves but we do our best. Merry Christmas, my friend. xxoJudy
DeleteJudy, there is so much history about your grand old lady. How special to share the history and memories. I hope you are getting used to your new laptop. Merry Christmas. xoxo
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Linda. I appreciate it. Slowly but surely. I finally figured out how to join up to your party. I jump for joy with each new thing I learn. Merry Christmas to you..xxoJudy
DeleteI love that you could feel the good energy as soon as you walked in the door! And you continue to add to the wonderful history and good vibes of your beautiful home. Love the Velveteen Rabbit quote and it is so true, isn't it? Such lovely photos to illustrate your beautiful post. Sending hugs xo K
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Karen. There has always been a connection with this house for us, even when the pipes burst or the roof leaked! Merry Christmas to you and your family..xxoJudy
DeleteYou are indeed surrounded by history and I love how you honor that history in your own style and decor. It's truly beautful! Sending all good wishes for a very wonderful holiday in your beautiful home!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Jeanie. I am having fun decorating and almost through. Hope you and Steve have a wonderful Christmas..xxoJudy
DeleteSorry, Rick, I had just been talking about a friend whose name is Steve. Old minds work in mysterious ways!
DeleteOh my Judy, this was the most lovely post - between your beautiful, heartfelt words and gorgeous photos, you really captured the charm of your home. How fitting, this time of year, to be reminded the Garland family once lived there. Jane
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Jane. Your kind comments are always welcome and I always know that you get it! Merry Christmas to you and your family..xxoJudy
DeleteHappy 156 years of Christmas memories to your sweet lovely cottage. You have made the Garlands proud. Janice
ReplyDelete